First Christian Church celebrates 100th birthday

South Charlotte Weekly

Crystal O’Gorman/SCW photo

Crystal O’Gorman/SCW photo

First Christian Church, at the corner of East Boulevard and Dilworth Road East, will celebrate its centennial anniversary on Saturday and Sunday, May 30 and 31.

The church began with one man’s dream to bring a more unified denomination of Christianity, called Disciples of Christ, to the Charlotte area and has since touched the lives of generations of south Charlotte families.

Reverend Jolin Wilks McElroy pointed to a faded sepia-colored photograph of the church’s founding members.

“Francis Taylor was the lay leader who started our first church gatherings at the YMCA in downtown in 1915,” she said. “He also donated all his retirement money to build the first church with the exception that he live and take his meals at the church.”

The original church, built in 1925, is now the Christian Education building, which holds classrooms, a full-sized kitchen and fellowship hall in a two-story brick building attached to the rest of the church.

The church has evolved with time – hiring a female reverend in 2000 when it was still a rarity, starting Dilworth Soup Kitchen and accepting Montagnard refugees, a Vietnamese indigenous peoples, into its congregation.

McElroy said the church faced challenges filling the pews in the 1980s and 90s, as people moved out of Dilworth and into subdivisions outside of the city. Longtime church members told her the church was faced with the decision to push through or close down.

“Church members said, ‘We needed a place to be – others will want this,’ and they stuck with it,” McElroy said.

By the time she was hired, the church was primed to take charge and embrace change. In 2003, they hosted the General Assembly of the Christian Church of Disciples of Christ in North America and Canada that drew a crowd of 800 people to the church for services.

McElory also received a grant totaling almost $45,000 in 2004 for a sabbatical, which allowed church members to take retreats to the birthplace of Disciples of Christ in Bethany, Virginia, as well as the Craddock Center, a nonprofit serving the needs of people in the south, in Cherry Log, Georgia.

“I was married in this church and had my baby here,” she said.

What can only be explained as divine intervention in 2008 has shaped the church to what it is now.

McElroy said she struck up a conversation by fate with a neighborhood runner as he passed the church. Allen Saxe, a Jewish man, suggested the church start a soup kitchen for the homeless and offered to help make it happen. When the economy crashed and the church was looking for ways to reach out to the community, she decided to take Saxe up on his offer. The weekly soup kitchen, a nonprofit known as Dilworth Soup Kitchen, started serving soup and bread for Christmas Eve lunch in 2008 and has continued each year. The church serves soup, full meals and bread to more than 200 people every Monday from 11 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. in the fellowship hall, which used to be the sanctuary and was converted to a large kitchen and dining area decades before the soup kitchen came into fruition.

“We want to give people respect and make them feel welcome,” McElroy said. “They take a seat and we serve them on real plates and real silverware.

“We treat them like we would any guests in our home and they appreciate it.”

Another unexpected change chimed in by the church bells.

Luar Siu, the lay leader of a group of Montagnard refugees went out to scout for a church where his people could worship in October 2008. He was drawn to the church, because – even though he knew little English – he could read the word Christian on the church sign and heard the familiar tune of an old hymn being played by the church bells, said McElroy.

After being welcomed into the church with open arms, Siu brought more than 30 new members. Most didn’t speak English well, but they chose to attend the worship service in English versus having a separate service, which enriched the congregation.

“It’s amazing how God brought people from across the world to our church steps,” said McElroy.

She attributes the Montagnard’s arrival to the prayer team led by Julie Burch.

“The team, then and now, prays that our church will be a place where hurting people find God,” Burch, a south Charlotte resident, said. “None of us on the prayer team could have ever imagined that our church would become home to a group of people so very far away from their homeland, escaping the persecution of their Christian faith.”

The church has become well known as a place where everyone is accepted. They are open and inclusive to every theological and political belief and the church’s “essential message is unity and in all things, love,” said McElroy.

“When I moved to Charlotte, I had no family or friends here and the church became, in a way, a new home base,” said Burch, a 22-year church member. “What kept me coming back are the people and their warmth and caring.”

She also appreciates how the church is open and affirming to people from different social, economic and religious backgrounds, as well as different lifestyles. 

“When we gather around the Communion table each week, we gather as people who believe in Jesus Christ,” she said. “We might not necessarily agree on other matters, but we are one in that belief.”

First Christian Church will hold several activities in commemoration of the anniversary next weekend. Below is a list of the upcoming festivities:

Saturday, May 30

• Birthday party from 2 to 4 p.m. that includes face painting, a bounce house, balloons, popcorn and music.

• Hands to Work, Hearts to God at 3 p.m. in the fellowship hall, where adults and older children assemble hygiene kits for mission work.

• Hot Dog Supper from 5 to 6 p.m. in the fellowship hall – guests must RSVP by calling the church office at 704-334-3771.

• “Music Through the Decades” concert takes place from 7 to 8 p.m. in the sanctuary.

Sunday, May 31

• Worship service will start at 11 a.m. and includes special music and recognition of people who’ve contributed to the church over the years.

• 2015 Time Capsule and Reception will happen immediately after the service on the lawn with the reception to follow in the fellowship hall.

Visit http://www.fcc-charlotte.org for more information. First Christian Church is located at 1200 East Blvd.

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Waxhaw commissioners stand with Waxhaw Volunteer Fire Department, needs more fulltime staff

Union County Weekly

Photo courtesy of WVFD.

At its May 12 meeting, the Waxhaw Board of Commissioners unanimously agreed to support Chief Rob Fitzgerald and the Waxhaw Volunteer Fire Department (WVFD) in asking Union County Board of Commissioners (UCBOC) for additional funds to hire more fulltime firefighters and Emergency Medical Technicians (EMTs).

The board appointed Waxhaw Town Manager Warren Wood to work with Fitzgerald to write a letter on behalf of the board that requests an additional $134,534 to fund two fulltime firefighter/EMTs to man Station 18 at night. The letter was signed by all board members and sent to UCBOC on Monday.

Fitzgerald voiced several concerns about relying primarily on volunteers to the board last Tuesday. He said the volunteer model has “fizzled out” across the state due to training requirements and call volume.

Volunteer firefighters are required to train for 349 hours before they volunteer on staff and 192 hours for EMTs. Those hours are completed in 3-hour increments at night, according to Fitzgerald.

“Imagine how long that takes to get someone off the street and get them up to stake to be a firefighter,” he said.

Fitzgerald also pointed out the increase in call volume as another reason he needs more fulltime help. Calls have increased from 535 incidents in 2003 to 1,208 in 2014, according to the board’s letter.

Fitzgerald confirmed the WVFD currently has four full-time firefighters during weekdays and two working fulltime during the day on the weekends. The station relies solely on volunteers from 6 p.m. to 8 a.m. everyday, he said.

“A lot of nights, we are fully staffed (with volunteers) at the station, but some nights we aren’t fully staffed,” he admitted to the commissioners.

He added that a lot of volunteers live outside of Waxhaw, and when the station isn’t fully staffed, volunteers have to respond from their homes.

“In the job we do, time is critical. If we respond from home to the station to pick up the truck and then head to the scene, it takes significantly longer to get a truck there and to begin mitigating the incident,” he said. “If we can have paid firefighter/EMTs at the station that can respond in a minute or so that would be a huge help – not only to us and the volunteers, but to the community as well.”

WVFD’s response time was a concern documented in a fire services assessment for Union County in April 2010 and addressed in the letter between the boards.

The assessment reads, “When units regularly fail to get out of the fire station in a timely manner because of inadequate staffing resources, the community is endangered and fire department managers have a reliability problem.”

Waxhaw BOC requested that county commissioners use WVFD’s proposed fund balance to pay for additional fulltime staff at Station 18. The letter states Union County Manager Cynthia Coto’s original 2015-16 budget recommended $134,534 in additional incentive program funding for WVFD for nighttime staff volunteers and $115,632 for two fulltime firefighters at Sub-station 27. However, the commissioners decided to keep the budget the same as last year and not fund these needs, because the UCBOC is currently funding a fire study to be finished in 2016 to understand the best way to allocate funds and provide service.

Fitzgerald said the $134,534 incentive program fund is the same amount of money needed to hire two fulltime firefighters at night.

“I’m willing to forgo the funds to have two additional fulltime firefighters/EMTs during the day, but I need staff at night,” he said.

Waxhaw BOC asked the county commissioners to respond to their request before the UCBOC public hearing on the 2015-16 budget, which was Monday, May 18. Woods spoke with Coto on Tuesday morning, and she confirmed that the UCBOC had received the letter and she would be in touch if there were any budget changes for WVFD.

“We both agreed that it was important to keep an ongoing open dialogue and a positive working relationship, so we could come up with good solutions on topics like this one and others that may come up in the future,” Wood said in an email.

If the county doesn’t fund WVFD’s additional staff needs, Waxhaw commissioners agreed at the council meeting to find funding in their budget to help fill in the gaps.

“We need to step up and do our part if Union County Board of Commissioners doesn’t,” commissioner John Hunt said.

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Carolina Crush Lacrosse offers travel and learning opportunity

Matthews – Mint Hill Weekly

MINT HILL – Area girls will have an opportunity to hone their lacrosse skills this summer, as Carolina Crush Lacrosse gears up for two upcoming summer clinics.

Sandy Barnett, volunteer coordinator of Independence High School’s lacrosse program and Mint Hill Parks and Recreation council member, and Melissa LaDez, head varsity coach for Independence High’s lacrosse team, recently joined together to create Carolina Crush Lacrosse, a private lacrosse skills academy and travel team.

From left, Hannah Oliverius Pease, assistant coach; Natalie Barnett, assistant coach; and Melissa LaDez, head coach and co-founder. Photo courtesy of Sandy Barnett.

“We decided to start Carolina Crush to give girls an opportunity to get involved with such a great sport,” said LaDez. “There are other avenues they can take, but my goal was to create a local, cost-effective opportunity that is feasible for parents and players.”

LaDez has been involved with lacrosse for 24 years, as both a player and a coach. She ended her playing career with a silver medal for the U.S. Red Team at the Down Under Cup in Australia in 2008. She hopes to help foster a love of lacrosse by using her decades of experience with the sport.

“It is the fastest growing sport in the country, and I believe in the South, as well,” LaDez said. “At Independence alone, our roster grew from 18 to 25 players in one year due to growing interest and word of mouth.”

Barnett said her three children fell in love with the sport while participating in lacrosse at Queen’s Grant Community School.

“As a parent, there’s nothing better than giving your daughter an opportunity to be confident and strong,” she said. “Being an athlete is one way to do that.”

Barnett talked about how her daughter, Natalie, a senior at Independence, went from being shy to a leader, and then team captain, because of lacrosse. Natalie was named Independence High School’s Lacrosse MVP three times and will go on to play Division I lacrosse at Presbyterian College in the fall. She also will work as an assistant coach at Carolina Crush Lacrosse, working with elementary and middle school girls during summer clinics.

“(Lacrosse) has provided so many wonderful opportunities for my children,” Barnett said.

The summer clinics will run from June 16 to July 2 and July 14 to July 30 for girls in grades second through 12th grades living in Matthews, Mint Hill, Union County and south Charlotte. The clinics are for girls interested in improving their stick skills from a beginner to intermediate level.

“The problem in Mint Hill, Matthews and Union County is girls don’t start out playing when they’re young, so we are always behind in skill level,” said Barnett.

The travel team starts practice this week and will travel to High Point; Mooresville; and Gatlinburg and Chattanooga, Tennessee, during weekends starting June 13 and 14 and ending July 18 and 19.

The travel team gives high school students a chance to compete on a higher level and attract attention from college scouts, Barnett said. Currently, 15 girls are committed to playing on the travel team from Independence, Porter Ridge, South Mecklenburg and Butler high schools, but they are still recruiting more players.

“There are tons of opportunities to travel further, but we are trying to keep it affordable and realistic for the first time,” Barnett said. “Keep it at a level of investment parents can understand, but also provide good exposure to colleges.”

Hannah Oliverius Pease, a former goalie for Belmont Abbey College will be the assistant travel coach and college recruiting coordinator for the travel team. She will assist parents and players with the recruiting process to help the girls have the best exposure to college scouts, said Barnett.

Barnett and LaDez want to give girls an opportunity to build confidence, practice teamwork and have fun.

“While most lacrosse players won’t go on to play in college or professionally, it really will give them an outlet where they belong, which is vital at that age,” Barnett said.

“Engagement in lacrosse is so important because it is a healthy, positive outlet with a wonderful chance at networking,” LaDez said. “It is very important to me to find a positive, wholesome way to help the community and provide kids with a program to get involved with that can lead to many open doors.”

Summer academy clinics cost $225 to $250 per session depending on age. Players participating in both summer sessions will receive a $55 discount for the second session. The high school travel team costs $350, excluding travel expenses, with an additional $35 U.S. Lacrosse Association member fee.

Email Sandy Barnett at carolinacrushlacrosse@gmail.com or visit www.carolinacrushlacrosse.com for more information. They also will give away a Brine Dynasty Rise girls lacrosse stick; more information is available on the website.

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PHOTO GALLERY: Waxhaw Art Kaleidoscope brings family fun to downtown Waxhaw

Union County Weekly

WAXHAW – Hundreds of people took part in Waxhaw Art Kaleidoscope in downtown Waxhaw on Saturday and Sunday, May 16 and 17.

This event has replaced the former Spring Fest by adding an artistic flair to pay tribute to the growing artistic community in Waxhaw and Union County.

Forty-five artists from painters to sculptures and wood workers set up booths and displayed their artwork to patrons. Over fifty crafters sold wreaths, jewelry, hand bags, crocheted dolls and handcrafted wooden furniture.

The kids also had an entertainment oasis shaded by oak trees at the Kids Zone on the green space at Waxhaw United Methodist Church. Children bounced from one bounce house to the next, suited up for laser tag and fed pigs, donkeys, llamas and goats at the petting zoo.

Main Street hosted entertainment and concessions for both adults and children with face painting and magic tricks from Arty the Clown, as well as a beer garden and several rock and blues bands.

From grandmothers to babies, the whole community came out to participate in Waxhaw Art Kaleidoscope. Many also didn’t leave without first enjoying some festival favorites – red velvet funnel cakes and fresh squeezed lemonade.

The following photos were taken by Union County Weekly reporter Crystal O’Gorman.

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Special Olympics Gymnastics team headed to summer games

Matthews – Mint Hill Weekly

MATTHEWS – Connie Mulroy beamed with excitement as she discussed her first-year Special Olympics Gymnastic team’s accomplishments.

“They totally rocked qualifiers,” the Matthews resident said. “I took 19 (athletes) and all qualified for the state summer games.”

After only five weekly practices, 19 children with disabilities from Mecklenburg and Union counties stepped up to the beam and onto the floor to perform routines at the Central Gymnastics Qualifiers in High Point on April 19.

Photo courtesy of Vanessa Gill.

Mulroy said her team was the largest by far, making up more than half of the regional qualifying team. She also said this was the first Special Olympics Gymnastics team to represent Mecklenburg County in eight years.

“The level of this sport has dwindled,” she said. “I hope to bring back the love of the sport and inspire others to get involved.”

Mulroy worked as a competitive gymnastics trainer at International Sports Center (ISC) in Matthews from 1998 until 2003, when she had her daughter, Brielle, who was born with Down syndrome and a heart condition and needed extra support. So, she gave up her career to focus on taking care of Brielle.

She started Charlotte Allstar Cheerleaders (CAC) Angels cheer team for children with disabilities at the ISC in 2007 to provide an athletic option for children like Brielle. The Special Olympics Gymnastics team spawned from her competitive cheer teams, with 90 percent of the gymnasts also competing with CAC Angels and Diamonds.

“I just wanted to get back to gymnastics,” she said. “I knew I had a good team from the Angels and Diamonds cheerleaders I’d been coaching for eight years.”

Photo courtesy of Vanessa Gill.

The cheer season ended in February, and gymnastics practice started March 17.

Laurie Maddex’s 8-year-old son, Zeke, of Waxhaw, has been on the CAC Angels cheer team for two years and was delighted to join the gymnastics team.

“He has excelled so much through the cheer team that it was a good entry point,” she said. “Plus, he loves to be the center of attention – he feels 10 feet tall when he puts on that uniform and goes on the floor. This is a big deal for him to hear people cheer and watch him.”

Zeke, who has Down syndrome, has improved his physical strength and balance and his ability to follow directions and wait his turn, because of his participation in cheer and gymnastics. Maddex said Zeke couldn’t run or jump when they brought him home from a Ukraine orphanage at 4 years old, but he’s improved significantly over the past four years.

Maddex also said this experience has taught her to continue giving Zeke opportunities without limitations. Due to the lack of equipment, Mulroy’s team couldn’t practice some routines beforehand and had to learn them the day of qualifiers. Maddex said Zeke learned the pommel horse just before competing and nailed the routine.

“I think that as a parent we try really hard not to put limitations on him and to advocate and fight for him, but sometimes we don’t expect him to do the things he can do,” she said. “We had no idea what expect, so we couldn’t limit him; we just stood back and watched him grow and couldn’t be more proud.”

The gymnastics team consists of 19 boys and girls 8 to 19 years old with conditions like autism, Down syndrome, Williams syndrome and blindness. All qualified, but only 18 will compete in the 2015 Special Olympics North Carolina Summer Games on May 29 and 30.

Mulroy will have a female gymnast competing in rhythmic gymnastics with a floor ball routine, and 15 female gymnasts competing in artistic gymnastics, which includes vault, uneven bars, balance beam and floor exercises. Two male gymnasts will compete in still rings, parallel bars, high bar, pommel horse, vault and floor exercises.

“They’ve been working really hard,” Mulroy said.

Mulroy also commended the volunteers for their support. Competitive gymnasts, who train at ISC, have jumped in and assisted during practices to help the kids learn the routines, she said.

“I couldn’t have done it without them, and they’ve gained a lot from the experience,” she said. “They get to see a different side of the sport and how these kids are working hard at obtaining a small skill.”

Email Mulroy at connie.mulroy@gmail.com for information about Special Olympics Gymnastics.

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